Posts Tagged ‘Creativity’

A Commitment to Being Inspired

Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

I realized yesterday that it’s been a month since I’ve posted on my blog, and I wondered on that for a bit.  Folks have advised me to blog on a regular schedule – say, twice a week on Mondays and Fridays.  But I find that approach doesn’t work for me, because I choose to blog about what I really care about – including events or ideas that inspire me, aggravate me, royally piss me off , or move me to tears.  I find I can’t schedule that.

But there is one new thing I’ve decided to commit to scheduling for myself each week, because doing so reminds me of how wonderfully amazing this life on earth truly is.  I’m committing to watching at least one TED.com video a week, and many more if I can.

If you don’t know about it, TED.com is a nonprofit devoted to Ideas Worth Spreading. It started out (in 1984) as a conference bringing together people from three worlds: Technology, Entertainment, Design. Since then its scope has become broader, with two annual conferences — the TED Conference in Long Beach and Palm Springs each spring, and the TEDGlobal conference in Oxford UK each summer — TED includes the award-winning TEDTalks video site, the Open Translation Project and Open TV Project, the inspiring TED Fellows and TEDx programs, and the annual TED Prize.

For me, watching these events and talks energizes me like nothing else, because TED helps me remember — and directly experience — the brilliance, courage and creativity that exists in our world ( fraught as it is with imperfection, pain and challenge).  The TED speakers and contributors are all – to a one – utterly passionate about their work, fantastically gifted in what they do and how they communicate and present their ideas, and entertaining in a way that is riveting and uplifting.

What I’ve learned is that, when I take time each week to disengage from my intense personal focus on my own world, work and community, and look out into and touch a larger global community that is committed to “making our future” rather than simply “seeing our future,” I’m reminded again of what’s truly important to me. 

So if fabulous, expansive and beautiful ideas enliven you, I encourage you to check out TED.com, and the recent independent TEDx event held in Kansas City.  In particular, I loved Dr. Brene Brown’s talk on “vulnerability” – funny, touching, and informative – reminding us that when we “numb” our negative fears and emotions, we can’t help but numb all of our emotions – including love, compassion, and joy, and that being afraid of being vulnerable means being afraid to live.

Check out Brene’s talk out here, and see the whole TEDx Kansas City event here.

I’d LOVE to hear your thoughts – which of these talks stimulated you the most?  What inspires you at the highest level, in life and work?  And are you committed to experiencing and touching on a regular basis new people and new ideas that truly uplift and “uplife” you. 

Life is so good – we need to find our own ways to remember that, each day and week.

“Bad Dancing Will Never Hurt the Ground”

Sunday, December 13th, 2009

Friday night, my husband Arthur Lipner held a screening of the first-cut of new upcoming documentary, called Talking Sticks, to an enthusiastic and appreciative crowd in Wilton, CT.  It was quite a wild night, complete with Brazilian and African food, dance, and percussion.

The film is about Arthur’s journey to find and express himself through his “talking sticks” (he’s a jazz percussionist playing marimba and vibes – instruments that aren’t well known in the U.S.).  It also reveals some stunning lessons he’s learned about life, culture, art, personal connection and creativity, through his amazing world travels and experiences in places such as Ghana, Rio, Mexico, and Norway.

One key message of the film is that each of us has creative gifts and abilities that are waiting to be shared.  Many of us display these gifts throughout our childhood, but then life takes over, and we let our gifts go underground and we simply stop focusing on them, much to our sadness and regret later in life.

Much of my coaching and seminar work with clients today – many of whom are highly “successful” in the business world – is around discovering the answers to these vital questions:

-          Who am I uniquely in the world?

-          What makes me special, happy, fulfilled?

-          What would bring me “knock-your-socks-off” joy?

It’s amazing how infrequently the majority of folks I meet with know the answers to these questions.   I’d love to do a study of American cultural evolution, and understand more clearly why so many of us in the U.S. have lost the connection to our special creativity – to expressing ourselves authentically, uniquely and powerfully – in ways that make us know and remember why we’re on the planet.  It’s not like this in other countries – America is somehow very different in this respect.

If you used your creative gifts as a child, and miss them in your life as it is, I implore you to bring your creativity forward again.  It doesn’t require a major life reinvention…it requires focus, commitment, and an “I can do this!” mentality.  You CAN fit creativity in your life – and when you do, your life will change for the better.

Despite your skepticism about your abilities, I know this to be true – every person on this planet IS creative.  Bernard Woma – a renowned master of the Ghanaian xylophone and leading music educator from the Dagara Tribe in Ghana, who’s featured in Talking Sticks – told me last night that when a child says to him, “I want to dance, but I’m embarrassed – I’m not a good dancer,” Bernard replies, “Bad dancing will never hurt the ground.  The ground will not complain!”

How beautiful is that?…

A key question I’d love to encourage you to think about is this: “Do you care enough about yourself and others to share your creative gifts?”

Coaching question of the week: What are the creative gifts you used to LOVE expressing?  What latent creative talent is inside you, waiting to burst forth.  Creativity is there inside of you, I know it!

Please make 2010 the year that you say YES! to your special brand of creativity.  The world wants and needs it.

The Indomitable Donkey

Friday, December 5th, 2008

This week, I had the great pleasure of speaking with writer extraordinaire, Janene Mascarella (www.janenemascarella.com), a successful contributor to many magazines that we know and love.  We discussed what it takes to thrive in a creative field such as freelance writing.  Janene shared a terrific little story that she sees as a metaphor for what we all must do to move forward in our lives, putting ourselves out there each and every day, with persistence and faith.

 

The story tells of an aging donkey who lives on a farm.  His owner decides it’s time to do away with the donkey, believing he’s seen better days.  The farmer digs a very deep hole in which to bury the donkey.  In goes the donkey, but each time the farmer throws in a shovel of dirt, the donkey shakes it off, and steps up.  And so it goes for hours: dirt on the donkey… donkey shakes it off, and steps up.  Shakes it off, and steps up.  Finally, after many hours, the donkey has shaken off so much dirt that he reaches level ground, and runs away to safety and freedom.

 

According to Janene, we all need to shake off everything thrown our way that holds us back and keeps us down.  Then we must step up – to what we believe in, and to what we know to be true about ourselves, and what we are capable of.  When an editor rejects a pitch, she shakes it off and moves on to the next idea or editor, undaunted, until an acceptance comes (and it always does!).

 

I think this philosophy couldn’t be more appropriate for today’s challenges.   In fact, ever since I heard this little story, I can’t help but think…what do I need to shake off today? 

 

Question of the week:  What needs to be shaken off in your life? And how can you step up to reach your highest and best self this week?

 

Thank you, Janene, for the inspiration!